Current Goal

1. Lose 2 lbs a week. 2. Workout for atleast 45 minutes 3 times a week. 3. Continue to find other ways to control my anxiety. 4. Do a detox 5. Cut out the sweets for GOOD

Quote of the Month:

July: A woman who cannot be ugly is not beautiful. ~Karl Kraus
April: "There are no secrets to success. It is the result of preparation, hard work, and learning from failure."
March 2011: "Life is to be lived. If you have to support yourself, you had bloody well better find some way that is going to be interesting. And you don't do that by sitting around." ~ Katharine Hepburn
November 2010: "Women need real moments of solitude and self-reflection to balance out how much of ourselves we give away." ~ Barbara De Angelis

Final Goal:

weight 170lbs. by December 2011



If I can loose 5 lbs a month I can do it!

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Love

"A wise girl kisses but doesn't love, listens but doesn't believe, and leaves before she is left."


— Marilyn Monroe



I can see the whole don’t kiss and tell and read between the lines…but do something before it’s done to you? hmmm..yes! It makes perfect sense. No, actually I love this quote because when you are in an
I-hate-men mode it’s empowering. However, once you realize that trying to play games the way men do doesn’t work you go right back to feeling lonely. For those of us who are over it and want to find real love it’s not like that. We take risks no matter how crazy your friends and family think you are for dating that amazing guy you met online (lol). When love is found it is great. Sorry Marilyn, but If the guy you’re all of a sudden madly in love with kisses you, well, you want to tell the world. Not only do you listen to every word he says, but all the things he doesn’t say. You feel his words and believe in a thing called love. You’d never leave if you found the real thing. I know Ja Rule says, “Pain is love”; but that’s not true. Real love doesn’t hurt. When you are truly in love you are supposed to feel happy. For some reason throughout the years, we women have forgotten that. If he cheats on you, abuses you in anyway, or doesn’t treat you the way you want to be treated wake up! I personally know that it takes time and it’s a process, but it can be done. If you need help, get a friend, read a book, or seek professional help. Ladies let’s never settle for a man who isn’t giving us what we need/want. The moment I decided that I was done with the bs coming from the ex is the moment I had my moment of clarity. Your life will be so much better, I promise. You may feel lonely, but so what?! The amazing feeling you experience later is definitely worth it, especially if you’ve found your dream man. Just a little something until the next update on the weight loss…

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